34 Purposeful Emotions: Learning
Emotions and Learning
In almost every area of cognition, emotion plays a role. Emotion strongly influences all of our mental processes, including:
- perception
- attention
- learning
- memory
- reasoning
- problem-solving
College students are often frustrated and anxious about exams, homework, and deadlines, resulting in different emotional states. Even the subject matter itself, math, science, English, etc. can influence your emotions, that in turn enhance or impair your ability to learn and retain information.
A substantial body of research establishes that emotionally charged events are recalled more clearly and accurately, and for longer periods of time. Emotional memories are more vivid and easily recalled than non-emotional memories, making us more adept at remembering and retrieving information when we are emotionally affected (Tyng, et al., 2017).
According to broaden-and-build theory, pleasant emotions increase the range of your attention and thoughts, which inspires exploratory ideas that boost creativity and problem-solving (Fredrickson, 2004). Pleasant emotional experiences and activities promote academic resilience, satisfaction, and well-being (Phan et al., 2019).
Ways to Care for Yourself When Painful Emotions Arise
“Each day is strewn with little jewels.” ~ Rick Hanson
Gratitude
When you notice something positive, stay with the feeling for 30 seconds. Feel the emotions in your whole body. Maybe your heart feels lighter or you’re smiling. Repeat the process a half dozen times a day and you’ll feel stronger, more stable, and calmer within a few weeks. The more you can deepen and lengthen positive experiences, the longer those positivity neurons in your brain are firing – and the longer they fire, the stronger the underlying neural networks become.
Self Compassion
Regardless of whether it feels good or bad, acknowledge that you are feeling it, but refrain from making any judgments about why it happened or how it happened. Be kind to yourself and validate what you feel.
Deep Breathing
- When people hear mindfulness, they often think of meditation. While meditation is one method of mindfulness, there are many others that may be simpler and easier for you to practice. Deep breathing helps lower stress and reduce anxiety, and it is simple yet very powerful. A daily mindful breathing practice has been shown to reduce test anxiety in college students.
- A 2-4-6-8 breathing pattern (see below) is a very useful tool that can be used to help bring a sense of calm and to help mild to moderate anxiety. It takes no time, requires no equipment, and can be done anywhere. With practice, 2-4-6-8 breathing will become a useful tool for times when you experience tension or stress.
Meditation
Dan Harris, a news reporter at ABC, fell into drug use and suffered a major panic attack on national television. Following this embarrassing period in his life, he learned to meditate and found that it made him calmer and more resilient. He’s now on a mission to make meditation approachable to everyone. Dan used to be a skeptic about meditation, but now says that if he learned to meditate, anyone can learn to meditate! Dan reminds us that we are going to get lost, and our mind is going to stray, and that’s okay. Simply notice when you’re lost and start over. Every time your mind strays, you start over. It’s like a bicep curl for your brain. Start with 3 minutes and slowly work your way up to 15 to 20 minutes. Watch this 8-minute video if you’d like to hear more about Dan’s journey.
For a simple meditation to get started, you can try one of the videos on the Meditation YouTube Channel. There are also great meditation apps for your phone, such as Insight Timer, CALM, and Headspace.
READ AND REFLECT ACTIVITY
Read the list below on ways to create pleasant emotional experiences and answer the following questions.
- Do you already participate in any of the pleasant emotional experiences listed below?
- Which activities do you enjoy most?
- What activities are you interested in trying out?
- Which activities can you schedule into your daily routine?
- Compare and contrast your feelings before and after you engage in a pleasant emotional experiences activity. In what ways did you feel the same? In what ways did you feel different?
Create Pleasant Emotional Experiences
Below are some strategies to help you create pleasant emotional experiences.
- Spend time with friends and family
- Experience something new
- Learn about something that interests you
- Take a course in an area of interest
- Serve (i.e., volunteer) in your community
- Engage in spiritual practice
- Explore and plan your career
- Enjoy your favorite music
- Play your favorite sport
- Take in the beautiful scenery
- Think of the kindness and good deeds that other people have done for you
- Have fun with your favorite physical activity
- Share a laugh
- Create art
- Read poems or thoughts from inspirational writers
- Visualize yourself achieving your goals and dreams
- Make a collage of your goals and dreams
- Take a walk in nature
- Plant something or do some gardening
- Play with a pet
- Drink something soothing like herbal tea
- Smell a soothing aroma such as flowers, lavender, or vanilla
- Browse photos of fun and joyous occasions you shared with your loved ones
- Create a vision board of places that you’d like to visit
- Daydream about the places you would like to explore
As you engage in these strategies, be mindful of your senses and what you are experiencing. If you become distracted, return your focus to what you are doing.
WATCH AND REFLECT ACTIVITY
Watch the 6-minute video on the core features of self-compassion and answer the following questions.
- How is self-compassion and compassion for others the same?
- What are the three components of self-compassion?
- What is the best way to practice self-kindness?
- Why is “common humanity” important to self-compassion?
- How does mindfulness contribute to self-compassion?
REFLECTION ACTIVITY
Practice 2-4-6-8 breathing, which is a tool to help bring a sense of calm. Follow the instructions below to practice and reflect on the questions.
- What did you notice most about how you felt before the deep breathing and after the deep breathing?
- When can you incorporate this breathing technique into your daily routine?
Instructions
- Start by quickly exhaling any air in your lungs (to the count of 2)
- Breathe through your nose, inhale to the count of 4
- Hold your breath for a count of 6
- Slowly exhale through your mouth to the count of 8
This is one round. Do not repeat the quick exhale again.
Instead, start round two with an inhale through your nose to the count of 4, hold for 6, and exhale to 8.
Repeat for three more rounds. Relax your body and mind.