Lectura: Saludos en los países hispanos

It is always nice to meet up with a friend. You can walk up to them, say hello, give them a high-five and ask them “what’s up?” Sounds easy enough. But what if that friend of yours lives in Mexico or South America or is originally from Mexico or South America? Should you shake hands, give them a kiss (or maybe two), wave, or give them the old high-five? The truth is greetings in other cultures can be very different. This is especially true in Latin American culture and if you aren’t prepared, you can find yourself in some very awkward and strange situations. In Latin America the way people greet each other can vary from region to region, but here are some basic tips to help you in most instances.

1. Relatives and Friends – In general, friends and relatives greet each other in Latin America with a kiss or a hug. When a male greets a female or a female greets another female here is what happens. They will gently touch both arms and move together until they are about six inches apart. Then they cock their heads, put their cheeks together, and make a light kissing sound. When a male greets another male, who is his relative or friend, it is customary for them just to approach each other and give each other a hug.
2. Casual Parties – When you are invited to someone’s home you can generally expect to be treated like a friend or relative. Be prepared for a kiss or a hug! If you are unsure at all about what to do when you are in someone’s home, the best thing to do is just follow the lead of your host. You can follow their body language and just do what they do. In some countries and regions, you may also be kissed twice – once on one cheek and once on the other cheek. If you are prepared to follow the lead of your host, you’ll do just fine!
3. Business – In most business situations and greetings, you can generally plan on shaking hands, unless they are a long-time acquaintance or relative. In this case, follow the “Relatives and Friends” guideline, but again, be sure to follow their lead.

ACTIVIDAD # 1

Answer the following questions based on the reading:

1. Describe how a male greets a female or a female greets another female in most Latin American countries.

2. What is the most appropriate greeting to use when you are invited to someone’s home?

3. What is the most common greeting in a business setting?

4. How do you greet your friends and relatives?

ACTIVIDAD # 2

Saludos. Role-play the following greetings with a partner. Include a verbal and non-verbal greeting, as appropriate.

1. Friends in Costa Rica

2. Business associates at a conference in Colombia

3. Relatives in México

4. Friends meeting in a restaurant

5. Meeting the hostess at a party